Why does it always seem like it is easier to lose old friends than to keep them?  And an even better question is why is it harder to make friends than it is to make enemies?  Sometimes I think everything in this world is backwards.  I mean people judge others before ever even saying hello to them.  It's as if they decide at first glance whether they will become your friend or your foe, and quite frankly it sucks!  Maybe I am wrong about this.  Perhaps it is just my strange personality that causes people to jump to conclusions about me, but I just wish that people would stop judging me within the first few seconds of meeting me and actually take the time to get to know me before they make their decision.